Be Different, Stay Different

Being different is one of the most important traits in life. Be it for me or for you~


Under certain circumstances, it's pretty difficult being yourself. And its even harder when not knowing what your traits are and should be. I think everyone will surely come to this phase of time to decide who to be and who not to be. Of course, we do idolize the people we wish to be. And even hope someday being like them. I do favor those great idols, but what really matters, these people are just the set of examples to follow suit. We can never exactly be like them and live someone's else life.


What's more even in some situations, I am not myself. Life is so like the story of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde where we live of both different personality traits. We wanted people to view us differently than who we really are~ To impress~ To boast~ Or even to hide the other side of ugliness within~ Putting ourselves on the stage of act could be harmful to ourself~ The good side for wearing a mask would be when we challenge ourselves beyond who we are~ To take on the courage and see how far we can go~ But that doesn't mean to dispose of our very own traits.


People change everyday and research even shows that people will tend to be different in terms of behavior, attitude and the way they think every 5 years~ But that of course, are mould by so many factors like being influence by the people they are with, changing the goals of their life and even exposed to different situations. That's what we call "growing".


Even when we change through the phases of life. We need to be different. To be unique. To stand out odd from the people besides you or around you. What makes you different while sharing the commonalities between them.


The hardest question even myself have a hard time answering it would be "What makes you different from others and why are you different that way"


I am sure that we are not born the same. And if we do, the world would be in chaos~


That's why life is beautiful when it is so diversify~


So be different and stay different~ :)